5 Reasons Why Spending the Holidays Single DOESN'T Suck.
The holidays are a time full of family, friends, giving, & sometimes having to decide whether or not to invite the new guy/girl you've been seeing over to Aunt Ruth's to undergo the entire family test. Being in a new relationship over the Holiday season is like blowing a balloon bigger and bigger and bigger and seeing if it can hold up to the pressure, or explode right in your face. 90% of my own past breakups have happened right at the beginning of the holidays... coincidenc
You're Allowed to Have a Bad Day .
Scroll through anyone's Instagram feed or Facebook timeline and I guarantee its all smiles and photos showing off their latest vacation or their perfect relationship. You know exactly what I'm talking about, because it's all we see all day. But you know what, IT AIN'T REAL. Well maybe for some extremely small percentage of people life is a walk in the park, but for the other 99% of us... that's just not the way the cards of our lives are dealt. Life is hard, shit goes wrong,
To the Men & Women Who Harden Kind Hearts .
I can't tell you how many times I have met a man and given him the benefit of the doubt (regardless of their baggage or how many of my friends warn me not to). I have always had that trait of always seeing the best in people, because who am I to hypocritically judge others for the cards their past has dealt them? Who am I to stand up on a soapbox with just 18 months sober under my belt and judge someone else for the baggage they pull behind them like a carry-on piece of lugga